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  1. Flutist-notFloutest on

    New player here!
    My first *ever* spouse was Elliott, and yes! I would absolutely marry him again.

  2. scrawledfilefish on

    Elliott.

    And yes, I’ve chosen him 5 times across 6 save files. The one time I didn’t, I tried to marry someone else, but I just couldn’t bring myself to do it. I guess it’s Elliott or nobody for me.

  3. My first spouse when I started plating back in 2016/2017 was Abigail. I just discovered goth girls and gamer girls back then and with her being both and a tomboy I couldn’t resist and gravitated to her. Then Leah, then Hayley.

  4. Sam and yes I’ll marry him in every play through, was going to be Alex and then he decided women can’t play catch

  5. MuscleBobBuffPants24 on

    Harvey was and will always be my husband no matter how badly I want Krobus as my roommate lol

  6. jackskellington31 on

    My first spouse was Harvey. I choose him every playthrough and I can’t bring myself to marry anyone else. I love my sweet, kind nerd.

  7. RegionConsistent4729 on

    Sebastian was my first. . . . . . . . . . but it’s been *Harvey* every single save since 🫣

  8. Total-Common6811 on

    Leah ❤️❤️ she’s my first love and I always want to marry her, but I feel bad that she moves out of her cute forest cottage. I now usually marry Sebastian because I love him too and he really needs to move out of his parents’ house.

  9. LittlePinkSouda on

    Played so many ones without. First was penny for my perfection run. Yes she’s very sweet and I love her after marriage event.
    Second was Hailey and also yes probably

  10. My first spouse I chose was Haley! And no I wouldn’t choose her again. Ever since that first run and I actually met all the other people, It’s Sebastian or nobody for me. He does so much around the farm typically and for me plus I love my emo boys <3

  11. Elliot. I wasnt initially planning to romance anyone, but i wanted to achieve perfection so I spun a wheel and well…

    I *love* him. >!The letters he sends you when he’s away are SO sweet. I love his corny romantic dialogue!< Genuinely the best husband (but I also havent romanced anyone else so take that how you will) 10/10 will marry again

  12. Sam, no because i’m not a teenager anymore. Tbh the older bachelors kinda suck. For me Shane is always a no, I’m not the “I can fix him” type. Especially when he’s still an alcoholic. He’s also not my type physical looks wise.

    Harvey and Elliott are quite handsome, but they are both quite sensitive. Elliott is a good romantic, but after a hard day of farm chores and fighting for my life in the mines its hard to appreciate him. He deserves someone better.

    As for Harvey he’s a bit too *weak* for me. I like his mustache, but I like a man who is more determined and strong-willed.

    I really wish I could romance Willy. I wouldn’t mind Rasmodius as long as the divorce baggage isn’t heavy in the arc, but the sailor has my heart for sure. Plus I wouldn’t feel so bad staying at Ginger Island all winter, and he could stay on the island farm with me and fish!

    As for bachelorettes I feel a bit the same. Leah and Emily are always my go to. However I feel bad for taking Emily from Sandy, and Leah just feels a bit bland for how difficult she is to romance. Again, I think she deserves someone better. I would much prefer to romance Jodi or Caroline.

    A lot of the bachelors/bachelorettes are fairly young coded. Obviously they are all 18+ minimum with some clearly listed as older, and some inferred as older. Like Maru having nursing credentials, Seb being able to work from home as well, Leah having lived on her own in Zuzu city prior to moving to the valley. But some like Alex, Sam, and Haley still seem to be teenagers.

  13. Jellybean11037 on

    My first spouse was Harvey back when the game first released. I tried to switch things up and tried marrying Sebastian on my current longterm save and deeply regretted it. I divorced Sebastian and now Harvey is a wonderful step father to our children. I continuously choose Harvey to this day.

  14. Sebastion, and no. My heart belongs to Shane. But if Krobus becomes a marriage candidate, I will pick the cute monster.

  15. Several-Insurance-46 on

    Penny was my first and every once in a while I’ll choose her, but these days I either rizz up my grumpy chicken boy or whimsical crystal girlie

  16. Abigail was always my first choice… until I learned I could have Krobus as a platonic roommate, and I was so happy. I did switch him out for Abigail before the summit though because I didn’t want Lewis there

  17. ninjapotatoprd on

    Alex 🫣 and never again 😂 he was just always outside when I had items to get rid off 😂😂😂

  18. MadeOnThursday on

    My first was the frog prince (Sebastian).

    I’ve made a different farmer to try out all the other bachelors. But it’s really hard to push through because I feel very guilty about using and losing them pixel people just for 10-heart completion. I didn’t like being married to Elliot, Harvey, Emily or Penny. I’m going for one last companion with this farmer and settle with Krobus.

    So I made another farmer and set my sights on Sam, who is an absolutely adorable dweeb husband.

    I still have to marry Hailey, Leah, Shane, Alex, Maru and Abigail. By what I know of them, I think I will adore Hailey (love her passion and character development) and Maru (gadgets and stargazing ❤️). The others not so much.

    But I can’t divorce Sam or Sebastian, so I’ll just make a new farmer for the remaining bachelors I guess.

    I would really love it if Krobus could move in regardless of the farmer being married or not.

    And if there were regular game nights when you marry Sam, Abigail or Sebastian, with everyone else coming over to the farm.

    (Requirement: large table and four seats)

  19. Maru. She’s just like me, a nerd who loves space, does STEM, and loves sweets. She also unironically does the ☝️🤓 and I find it endearing. Not to mention she has her shit together, she has a job, a purpose, no emotional baggage, and just seems like such a kind spirit. I hope to find my real Maru someday

  20. Shane and no. After maturing some and thinking on his character, I’m not his biggest fan. I still befriend him enough to get him sober, but I’d rather marry other characters.