I “accidentally” kidnapped sebastian?

Tldr: i modified the savefiles by hand to change my spouse from Emily to sebastian but did not modify it the maximum hearts,(it wasnt correctly modified, it still showed sebastian as single even tho he was in my house and Emily as (wife) but she wasn’t in the house?)

For the longer version:

I wanted to modify the farm type since i wanted to reach perfection (for the second time) but i choose the Riverland farm and i wanted to modify it to the standard one to have more space to be able to acheive perfection .

While doing that i started reading the xml save files and (after making backups!) started experimenting by hand changing some variables (the spouse one specifically cz i was curious) and i reached this and i was shocked that it worked and the game didnt crash (since i was going in blindly by hand and it did crash before while testing )

I thought about it for a second and i was like hold up if Sebastian is single but is in my house that means i technically kidnapped the poor guy😭😭

I didnt test further than trying to kiss him (he didnt accept it and the angry icon popped up)

LIVE UPDATE: I realised even tho i woke up to sebastian in my house, there was no room (as if i was single) he did leave (ended up in the ginger island resort) and his dialogue was his normal friendly dialogue) but i cant find emily , i think i crashed the game cause she is not in any of her normal schedule places (i checked the wiki for her schedule) 😭😭HELP I CANT FIND MY WIFE😭😭