This is a safe space… Why do you love your SDV spouse and what made you choose them?

by ASingleStardrop

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  1. SpecialistFast7578 on

    I love Lance because he’s an adventurer and the fact we are working with him makes a cute storyline and add more depth to me!

  2. All_copacetic_here on

    I mean, it’s a cliche but seriously, Hayley insulted me one time and my gay ass was like “I must wed this woman”

  3. perfect_fifths on

    Harvey! I’ve married Elliot, Alex, Sam, Shane and Harvey and Harvey is my go to because he’s a softie and super caring

  4. I chose Penny because she seemed sweet, I admired her volunteering as a teacher, and I wanted to get her out of that house.

  5. Joice_Craglarg on

    I choose a different wife each time, except for Maru and Penny who I just don’t see myself partnering with.

    If I had to pick, I’d go with Haley or Abigail. Next game, I’m going with Sandy tho, 100%.

  6. Feel like a basic bitch for choosing Sebastian but it’s not because he’s emo, I just relate to him as a neglected middle child 😂

  7. Educational_Form6549 on

    Sam. 

    I love Himbos.

    That is all. Thank you for coming to my ted talk. 

  8. mind_deficient on

    You know i was dating both Harvey and Shane and hadn’t made up my mind. Until I found Shane passed out in the woods and had to take him to the clinic. Harvey took care of him and I realized in that moment….it was always Harvey.

  9. In my first playthrough, I chose Alex because at the time he was the only decent-looking male to me (In my defense I was under 20). I loved his story and liked that he had special dialog when you date him as a male farmer.

    In my second and third playthroughs, I went with Shane because I love feeling like I can fix people :’) I like his development but I’m always disappointed once we’re married that it feels like he went backwards.

    If I end up starting a new game, I feel like I might romance Harvey, he’s actually so sweet. And maybe, just maybe, one day I’ll try romancing a girl. Probably Haley, her development is nice too.

  10. pressedleaves on

    i chose sebastian because we’re kinda similar 🙂 also he’s so pretty 😭

  11. Alex, cause he looks like my bf and it’s cute having a mini version of him on my farm

  12. AkelaHardware on

    A redhead with a braid is like a siren on a rocky island to me. I’ll crash this ship with all of us in it to get to Leah

  13. YourLaundryBasket on

    Elliott.

    It was initially his sophisticated and romantic appeal that drew me in.

    I stayed because he turned out to be this absolute diva that happens to have passion for artistic and sophisticated interests. I also swoon for his cheesy marriage dialogue lol

  14. GideonNav124 on

    I was determined to show her the true meaning of friendship and then we made out in her dark room

  15. FullBushSummer on

    Elliott:

    Introverted, creative, enjoys a quiet, peaceful career, cool friend (Leah). I like that when I marry him, he goes away and writes to me every day that he’s gone. I spent that whole time on Ginger Island and it was great.

    Harvey:

    Likes coffee, is a professional guy who helps the community, big softie.

  16. Shane because I love his journey, and how he finds a balance while it doesn’t feel like I took his dreams away when we have kids.

    Sebastian because we share the same hobbies, and I hc we have city dates as a DINK couple.

  17. allegory-of-painting on

    I love Elliot because I love men with long and fancy hair 😀 

    My real life boyfriend actually has long and fancy hair too so yeah thats my type haha

  18. no_boody_joody on

    Alex every time bc on my first play through I found out he liked eggs which made him easy to romance. That was in 2019 and I still pick him every time.

  19. alex. he has so much growth! and he’s so sweet and i love evelyn and george so it’s like i get a whole family :))

  20. StardropTeaLatte on

    Elliott is the only male spouse I ever married because he’s pretty. Usually, I marry my darling, Leah. She appreciates art and nature.

  21. wakuempanada on

    I heard him play the piano (that’s how I fell in love with my husband in real life too)

    Also, I find Elliott’s overly dramatic nature adorable.

  22. Old-Scallion4611 on

    Penny, weil sie wie meine echte Frau ist und sie einfach total süß.
    Sie liebt Kinder, kümmert sich um Fremde, liest Bücher und interessiert sich für Geschichte.
    Sie ist auch von Anfang an total nett zu dir. Auch liebt sie es auf der Farm zu leben und ist unfassbar dankbar.

  23. WolfDemon777 on

    I have the poly mod so I have multiple spouses, but my go tos are Shane, Emily, and Claire (SDV Extended). I like Shane because I can relate to him. I’m not an alcoholic (not even drinking age yet lol) but I understand his struggle with depression and life. I like Emily because she’s a very silly and compassionate person and Claire because she’s arguably the most down to earth of the SDV characters. I love that she wanted to be a ballerina, and that she’s just a regular person who hates her job and wanted to do something with her life but didn’t get the chance

  24. ParanoidParamour on

    Shane was my first romance because he reminded me of my boyfriend at the time. Yikes lol

  25. No-Juggernaut7529 on

    I’ve married a bunch in different playthroughs but my absolute favorite is Krobus. He’s an introverted weirdo so we have that in common. 😉

  26. A person who’s sweet, kind, helpful to her village and the children, and she has a life outside of just being married to me? How could I say no to Penny

  27. sailingthenightsea on

    penny is my favorite of the characters i’ve married she’s just so sweet and her moving to the farm and having a family is exactly what she wants from life so it doesn’t feel like she’s settling at all like our goals are perfectly aligned. her development from being shy to being more confident and bold with the bath house scene is so good. and !! her routine after getting married feels so balanced because she goes into town a few times a week to teach jas and vincent and she reads in her private garden once a week on the farm and she sometimes in the morning is standing in her library talking about how much she loves it and always dreamed of having one. what i really hope we get from 1.7 with the kids update is that our children get to go with her to the school days and maybe have other interactions with your spouse because i feel like it would add so much to her story especially.

    also the strawberry decorations are so cute i’m obsessed with them bc i have a strawberry tattoo and my real apartment is covered in strawberry stuff lmao

    but ugh penny my beloved