So I am a farmer by profession married my beloved husband… S, an aspiring musician, over a year ago. I own a sustainable farming business in Pelican Town and run it singlehandedly while trying to overthrow a multimillionaire corporation. I think y'all are aware of how much work has to be put into this. Lately, I got short of cash, so I started mining my own ores and minerals all while managing my Ginger island estate and traveling to the desert more often. I leave home early in the morning and return late at night to find my husband already asleep… leading to missed interactions! One week ago, I tried talking to him but he didn't listen which is unusual for a simple minded man like him . To make up, I started making his favorite meals (pizzas, maple bars) literally everyday and cut off some business hours to spend some time with him. Despite all my efforts he was still unwilling to forgive me. The next day, when he went to hang out at the local pub, I decided to move our bed from the farmhouse to one of my outhouses for a day, making him sleep on the couch, floor or wherever lol. I've done it!!! Things went pretty downhill after this. Its been 2 days since, now he makes me feel like a devil whenever I try to interact, with little to no room for reconciliation.
AITA for escalating this situation? Also advice needed desperately to save my failing marriage. 🙁
by Sharing_Interests_16
3 Comments
NTA. You must grind for the fields. The fields are your top priority. Your relationship pales in the face of 5000 radishes, prioritise the crops.
If you can’t make things work, divorce is always an option, then you can wipe his memory and remarry him
NTA. Where does he think your house comes from? His money for guitars, food, livestock, clothes and furniture?? — not to mention his outings with Sebastian on Fridays. Who does he think is funding his lifestyle?? I’d say talk it out and maybe try making him a pizza, but if that doesn’t work.. DIVORCE him girl. *And then remarry him like it never happened*.